As the air turns fragrant with marigolds and sandalwood, and homes begin to shimmer with diyas and rangoli, it’s time to embrace the magic of the festive season. From the spiritual elegance of Navratri to the sparkling grandeur of Diwali, this is your moment to shine bright inside and out. I decided to make this guide to cater to both women in North and South India.
Whether you’re a South Indian woman preparing for Navratri Golu visits or a North Indian diva ready to dazzle at Garba nights and Diwali parties, here’s your ultimate guide to planning the season with grace, glow, and generosity.
1. Outfit Planning: Tradition Meets Trend
South Indian Style:
For Navratri Golu evenings, opt for silk sarees in jewel tones—think Kanchipuram, Mysore silk, or cotton-silk blends. Also don’t forget the colour code for each day and get ready to flaunt your weaves. Time to take out sarees from your wardrobe and give them the breath of fresh air. Experiment with blouses, crop tops, mix and match and give your sarees a new style statement.
For Diwali, experiment with half-sarees, lehenga-style drapes, or fusion kurtas with temple jewellery. It can be fusion wear by trying different drape styles.
Don’t forget the flowers! Fresh jasmine or kanakambaram in your hair adds instant charm. Try pintresty hairdos for you and the little diva at home.
North Indian Style:
Navratri calls for vibrant chaniya cholis or mirror-work lehengas for Garba nights. Make sure it is also comfortable when you dance away.
Diwali is your runway for embroidered anarkalis, shararas, or Indo-western gowns.
Accessorize with jhumkas, bindis, and bangles—layered and loud is the vibe.
Pro Tip: Start shopping early to avoid last-minute chaos. Mix heirloom pieces with new buys for a personalized look. Also on a personal note, shop mindfully. Invest only if you need it badly.
2. Skincare Rituals: Glow That Lasts Beyond the Lights
Pre-Festive Prep:
Begin a gentle exfoliation and hydration routine at least 2 weeks before.
Use natural ingredients like turmeric, sandalwood, and rose water for DIY masks.
Don’t use makeup and let your skin breathe.
South Indian Favorites:
Ubtan made with besan, turmeric, and curd is a classic.
Coconut oil massages for hair and body are both therapeutic and nourishing.
North Indian Staples:
Multani mitti packs with rose water for oil control and brightness.
Almond oil or saffron-infused creams for a golden glow.
Bonus: Book a facial or spa session a few days before the big events to feel refreshed and radiant.
3. Guest List & Invitations: Celebrate with Your Circle
South Indian Touch:
For Navratri Golu, invite women and children for evening visits. Prepare a thaamboolam kit with kumkum, betel leaves, bangles, and sweets. Choose return gifts that would be used and not just lie around. If you are making a hamper, make sure you have them packed beforehand. Invite them beforehand, make sure they’re available to visit.
Diwali gatherings can be intimate with family or elaborate with extended relatives.
North Indian Vibe:
Navratri Garba nights are perfect for group invites—think WhatsApp e-cards or Instagram stories.
Diwali parties can be themed: ethnic glam, card night, or potluck.
Tip: Personalize your invites with a handwritten note or a voice message—it adds warmth and charm.
4. Food Planning: From Prasad to Party Platters
Navratri Menus:
South Indian: Sundal varieties, sweet pongal, payasam, and fruit platters. Add healthy twists and make sure they’re kid-friendly too.
North Indian: Sabudana khichdi, kuttu puris, aloo tikki, and vrat-friendly sweets.
Diwali Feasts:
South Indian: Murukku, adhirasam, ribbon pakoda, and coconut barfi.
North Indian: Gulab jamun, samosas, chole bhature, and dry fruit laddoos.
Hack: Prep dry snacks in advance and freeze sweets to save time. Use festive-themed serving ware for extra flair. In case you are going to send out hampers, plan for items that do not get damaged in transit.
5. Return Gifts: Thoughtful Tokens of Joy
South Indian Ideas:
Brass diyas, kumkum boxes, silk pouches, or handmade soaps. There are a lot of innovative gifts coming up that do not leave out the tradition but also incorporate modern thoughts.
Add a personal touch with a handwritten blessing or mantra card.
North Indian Picks:
Potli bags with dry fruits, scented candles, or mini skincare kits.
Eco-friendly options like seed bombs or terracotta decor are trending.
Wrap It Right: Use fabric wraps, banana leaves, or reusable boxes to keep it sustainable and stylish.
Final Touch: Celebrate YOU
Festivals are not just about rituals, they’re about reclaiming joy, honouring heritage, and expressing your unique style. Whether you’re dancing to dandiya beats or arranging dolls on a Golu stand, let this season be a celebration of your spirit.
So light that lamp, wear that saree, and let your laughter echo louder than the firecrackers. You’re the festival. Enjoy the moment, take pictures, loads of them to look back at memories.
This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’
hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla
in collaboration with Mads’ Cookhouse.